Are You Ready to Reignite the Spark in Your Relationship?
Transform your relationship with simple time effective strategies
“We were stuck in a rut with our long term relationship, going around and around the same issues, unable to break the cycle of miscommunication and misunderstanding. Tracey helped us to gain a new perspective and a new way of communicating which validated both of our needs, helping us to negotiate and move forward. I would highly recommend this service.”
“Vanessa is an amazing counsellor! She saved my marriage!!! She was perceptive, understanding, knowledgeable, diplomatic, empathetic, kind and a great listener. She taught my husband and I how to communicate again after years of growing apart. Vanessa could decipher our arguments and get to the root of the disagreement. She challenged our perceptions of a healthy relationship and rebuilt our marriage from the ground up. I will be forever grateful for her services. Highly recommend.”
Relationships do not remain static over their lifetime but rather change with each year. Often we readily surrender to a loss of passion, communication problems and loss of intimacy, believing that’s what happens as a relationship ages. But it doesn’t have to be that way.
Relationships certainly change over time and some aspects of the relationship diminished in frequency, but others are meant to take their place to stabilise and enhance the ongoing relationship. Many life events such as starting a family or focusing on careers also impact the quality of the relationship, but this is a normal part of relationship development. The key is knowing how to navigate these changes, avoiding them having a devastating impact on your relationship.
No matter what stage of development your relationship is at there is always a way to increase the connection and the “spark” using simple techniques that can be incorporated into your busy lifestyle.
Great Relationships Have Several Areas Functioning Well
Companionship and Friendship
Romance and Passion
Intimacy and Sexual Expression
Equality and respect
Commitment and Loyalty
Having a common purpose
As relationship coaches, we teach people the skills they need to enhance their relationships now and in the future. Our work with clients is customised for each couple so that the skills that we teach you will work for you within your framework and will produce the results that you’re looking for.
Specialise in strategies that are practical and easy to implement within a busy lifestyle.
Help you to design your relationship your way and then use our expertise to show you how to rapidly achieve it.
Show you how to make subtle changes that will bring you the results that you want in your relationship
What Our Clients are Saying
Tracey was able to give us a safe space to communicate without judgement. She gave us tools which helped us though the toughest times we’ve encountered
“When my partner and I were going through a relationship breakdown, we came to Tracey for help. Even if we were a bit borderline on whether it would work for us, we still gave it a go. Just after a handful of sessions, Tracey was able to give us a safe space to communicate without judgement. She gave us tools which helped us though the toughest times we’ve encountered so far in our relationship and that we continue to use to help guide us through and openly communicate with each other safely and respectfully. We have found each other again and continue to work on our relationship. Thank you Tracey for your guidance.“
They left the sessions with clarity and confidence
“Vanessa spent time with my two children aged 9 & 11. Both of them felt relaxed and at ease talking with Vanessa about some family issues. They left the sessions with clarity and confidence. Thank you Vanessa, I would highly recommend your service to everyone.”
She is easy to talk to, understanding and is very good at helping you see a situation in a different light
“Tracey has helped me immensely with both grief counselling and building life skills. She is easy to talk to, understanding and is very good at helping you see a situation in a different light. She has helped me through numerous issues and I have gained confidence through what she’s taught me. I would highly recommend her. Very knowledgable in many areas.”
I could not recommend her services highly enough
“Vanessa was able to identify with my 7 year old & get to the root of some problems, that we as a family did not know existed. I could not recommend her services highly enough. As parents sometimes we need some extra help or strategies – and we have found that Vanessa has provided us with those. Thank you again!”
I had been to other counsellors in the past, but you have been the one that had given me my life back
I am so grateful to you for helping me to recognise and manage my severe anxiety and depression. I had been to other counsellors in the past, but you have been the one that had given me my life back, – A Better Life !!
I will forever be grateful
Tracey rocks, I’m blessed to have met her
“Tracey has helped me in both work and home life. I came to Tracey for addiction, however, Tracey said let’s get to the cause. Turns out a lot of my issues came from my childhood. In such a short time Tracey has saved my life and marriage. I look at Tracey as a life coach. She brings a lot to the table such as life skills and her eagerness to genuinely help people. She is a straight shooter who does not read from a textbook or sugar coat situations. I would highly recommend Startpoint Counselling to anyone who has problems or just wants to work on self-development. Tracey rocks, I’m blessed to have met her.”
They are more confident and believe in themselves
“Vanessa has been working with both my daughters and I believe she has made a big difference to them both individually. They are more confident, believe in themselves plus she is a support person outside of family to confide in and help with any difficult situations that may arise. Thank you Vanessa.”
Easy to open up to ESPECIALLY on a personal level
“Tracey has been such an amazing help. She has been so helpful in dealing with so many issues and is really easy to open up to ESPECIALLY on a personal level which has been very hard to find. Would highly recommend her to everyone”
She has a gift of being able to lighten the load of past and present issue’s people may have
“Vanessa has helped a lot of people I’ve worked with within the community through troublesome times in their lives, she’s been an inspiration to myself and others through her gift of being able to lighten the load of past and present issue’s people may have.. Very discreet and professional.. Thank you for the work you do for myself and others, keep up the excellent work Vanessa”
Realistic approach and digging down to the drivers behind the behaviors has been mind blowing
“Tracey truly knows her stuff. She has been so helpful in getting our relationship back on track. Her realistic approach and digging down to the drivers behind the behaviors has been mind blowing. I knew from the start she was the right person to help and highly recommend her.”