Relationship Pain Does Not Mean it is Over
It Does Mean it is Time To Repair, Design and Enhance Your Relationship
Are You Feeling the Pain of
Loss of love and affection
Mental, Emotional or physical abuse
Not being heard or respected
Being taken for granted
Not getting the attention that you deserve
Always being reminded of your past
If So We Have the Solution
Relationships are as complex as the individuals that make up the relationship. The reason your relationship is currently in trouble will be the result of several factors ranging from childhood experiences through to the ways in which you react to the pressures of your current relationship. It is hard to identify and rectify these yourself.
Understanding your drives and needs is the first step in empowering yourself. Understanding others drives and needs is the foundation of healthy relationships. I believe that a desire to understand yourself and others and a willingness to implement necessary changes, make relationship repair possible.
Specialise in strategies that are practical and easy to implement within a busy lifestyle.
Conduct a thorough analysis of your relationship and quickly pinpoint the drivers behind your relationship problems.
Help you to design your relationship your way and then use our expertise to show you how to rapidly achieve it.
Show you how to make subtle changes that will bring you the results that you want in your relationship
Relationships can be successfully repaired if both parties must want to repair the relationship. Both sides must want to undertake whatever change is necessary to make this relationship work. Sounds easy but it’s not. It will be hard work, but the results make it all worthwhile.
Relationship Counselling is not about
– Assigning blame
– Finding fault
– Judging people for their action
– Telling you what to do
Relationship Counselling is about
– Understanding your world through your eyes
– Understanding where you are now
– Understanding where you want to be
– Finding solutions that work for you as individuals in a relationship
Not in our local area? No Problem, All our counselling services are available Face to Face via a video conferencing platform
What our clients are saying
Tracey was able to give us a safe space to communicate without judgement. She gave us tools which helped us though the toughest times we’ve encountered
“When my partner and I were going through a relationship breakdown, we came to Tracey for help. Even if we were a bit borderline on whether it would work for us, we still gave it a go. Just after a handful of sessions, Tracey was able to give us a safe space to communicate without judgement. She gave us tools which helped us though the toughest times we’ve encountered so far in our relationship and that we continue to use to help guide us through and openly communicate with each other safely and respectfully. We have found each other again and continue to work on our relationship. Thank you Tracey for your guidance.“
They left the sessions with clarity and confidence
“Vanessa spent time with my two children aged 9 & 11. Both of them felt relaxed and at ease talking with Vanessa about some family issues. They left the sessions with clarity and confidence. Thank you Vanessa, I would highly recommend your service to everyone.”
She is easy to talk to, understanding and is very good at helping you see a situation in a different light
“Tracey has helped me immensely with both grief counselling and building life skills. She is easy to talk to, understanding and is very good at helping you see a situation in a different light. She has helped me through numerous issues and I have gained confidence through what she’s taught me. I would highly recommend her. Very knowledgable in many areas.”
I could not recommend her services highly enough
“Vanessa was able to identify with my 7 year old & get to the root of some problems, that we as a family did not know existed. I could not recommend her services highly enough. As parents sometimes we need some extra help or strategies – and we have found that Vanessa has provided us with those. Thank you again!”
I had been to other counsellors in the past, but you have been the one that had given me my life back
I am so grateful to you for helping me to recognise and manage my severe anxiety and depression. I had been to other counsellors in the past, but you have been the one that had given me my life back, – A Better Life !!
I will forever be grateful
Tracey rocks, I’m blessed to have met her
“Tracey has helped me in both work and home life. I came to Tracey for addiction, however, Tracey said let’s get to the cause. Turns out a lot of my issues came from my childhood. In such a short time Tracey has saved my life and marriage. I look at Tracey as a life coach. She brings a lot to the table such as life skills and her eagerness to genuinely help people. She is a straight shooter who does not read from a textbook or sugar coat situations. I would highly recommend Startpoint Counselling to anyone who has problems or just wants to work on self-development. Tracey rocks, I’m blessed to have met her.”
They are more confident and believe in themselves
“Vanessa has been working with both my daughters and I believe she has made a big difference to them both individually. They are more confident, believe in themselves plus she is a support person outside of family to confide in and help with any difficult situations that may arise. Thank you Vanessa.”
Easy to open up to ESPECIALLY on a personal level
“Tracey has been such an amazing help. She has been so helpful in dealing with so many issues and is really easy to open up to ESPECIALLY on a personal level which has been very hard to find. Would highly recommend her to everyone”
She has a gift of being able to lighten the load of past and present issue’s people may have
“Vanessa has helped a lot of people I’ve worked with within the community through troublesome times in their lives, she’s been an inspiration to myself and others through her gift of being able to lighten the load of past and present issue’s people may have.. Very discreet and professional.. Thank you for the work you do for myself and others, keep up the excellent work Vanessa”
Realistic approach and digging down to the drivers behind the behaviors has been mind blowing
“Tracey truly knows her stuff. She has been so helpful in getting our relationship back on track. Her realistic approach and digging down to the drivers behind the behaviors has been mind blowing. I knew from the start she was the right person to help and highly recommend her.”